My Good is All-Good, Not Mixed with Evil of any Kind
I have seemed to have become an athlete over the past couple of decades. I certainly wasn't one as I grew up. Back then, I made the conscious choice to be a 'lady' over a 'tomboy'. I wrote that in my diary at 9 years old.
But about 20 years ago, when I asked my Inner Wisdom what spiritual practice I should add to my life, Its answer was loud and clear, "Walk 15 minutes a day." Despite my many arguments and reasons to the contrary, the Guidance would not go away, so eventually I did begin walking.
Which has led me to this strange place in my life. I am an athlete. I'm not saying that everyone in my world agrees with that statement, but I have to accept that this is what I am to me.
I used to think I was weak. I used to have some sort of condition that would not allow my body to sweat. I used to be unable to see a ball because I had double-vision without realizing it (yup, that's another story).
I have never done a full pushup. I still am at the end of any race. But the Joy of discovering how I can move my body has resulted in the strangest doors of opportunity opening up for me.
Today, I reflect on my past 2 weeks of rowing. I LOVE rowing, and found a summer program which is perfect for me -- no stress, lovely practice times, fabulous weather and a world-class coach paying attention to me. Rowing is a kind sport for a body because you only stretch what your body can already do; you don't have to do anything more and the boat will still float. What a peaceful summer!
And then, 2 weeks ago, my coach said to me, "Well, you are strong." And my inside world flipped over.
Me, strong? My lifetime self-identity that I am weak couldn't sit next to her comment. I felt the thoughts to disagree with her rise up in me, only to also hear another voice inside me that said she has more expertise than me (a 2-time Olympian) and has been sitting in the boat watching me for over a month. SHE is in a position to judge me, not me. SHE would know; I wouldn't.
"I am strong." ?
I had to accept that 'fact', and so, I thought I did.
But then, after the very next rowing practice, I developed this incredible pain in the palm of my hand. Throbbing all night and day, very slow to ebb away. Only now am I realizing that this happened AFTER I was told I am strong.
(Metaphysical Note: the old belief that I am weak still lived in my subconscious and produced 'proof' to me that I am right and the coach is wrong. Voila', I don't have to be confused anymore. It's now a moot point because I can't row anymore! Confusion solved by avoidance.)
I went to rowing anyway, riding along with the coach in the launch, watching the rowing rather than doing it myself. In wonder, I think, "This is a different person than I used to be too; in the past, I would have just hidden myself from them until 'all was well' again". This time, I told them what I was experiencing and then (even more amazing) I LISTENED to what the coaches said. Somehow, in some magical way, I had changed from someone who thinks "Well, that's it. I can't row anymore." to someone who thinks "I am an athlete; coach, tell me what I need to learn." I have moved from closing the door on myself to stopping on the threshold and seeing if there are other ways to cross it than I thought.
During that practice, a coach suggested that I change the way I hold my hands on the oar. I realized I had been holding the oar in a way I thought would avoid blistering and in a way I thought would compensate for my weak fingers (leaning on my palms rather than gripping with the fingers). I had achieved my personal objective, but avoided learning the correct way to row as well as avoided strengthening what needed to be strengthened. I was growing MY way, God, not Thine.
And then, Emma Curtis Hopkins' words came to me "My Good is All-Good, not mixed with evil of any kind." The belief in 'evil' as a necessary part of Good is something I have had to deny many times in my athletic career. I denied it again.
The pain disappeared. Last night, I rowed the full hour and a half, practicing grabbing the oar the way I was coached. In fact, I listened to all the instructions the coaches gave me and did what they were teaching me. I awoke this morning filled with satisfaction, enthusiasm for what's next, and NO PAIN.
My Good is All-Good, not mixed with evil of any kind.
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